Mabilis ako magalit. Mabilis din naman mawala. For a long time I considered it helpless. Ganun talaga ako e.
But we are born blank-slate daw. Meaning, I wasn’t born short-tempered. Therefore it’s still possible to change.
That made me look back on occasions I got really mad. Naalala ko there’s always regret whenever I burst out and say/do the most stupid things.
I recognized the pattern: Galit › Stupidness › Regret.
Kaya tuwing nagagalit ako inaalala ko na nagiging bobo ako. Tuwing hindi ako galit inaalala ko na nakakabobo magalit.
Written in March 28, 2012
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